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We all know the meaning of friendship : being friends with someone, sharing  good and  not so good days, events, persons in one’s life… To speak up one’s mind, to tell the truth always about anything and everything, be open in other words… There is no room for cheating in a friendship. It needs also understanding for the subjects you choose to keep to yourself. Friendship is not possessive, it is generously giving without expecting anything in return.  If there is, we simply are grateful and accept it with open arms.
Recently I have been told by a good friend that there is still a place in her heart for a friend in need next to her beautiful family… You can imagine how emotional one can get after such a heartwarming statement. Another very good friend is always near to share anything you want to share without asking any questions, lending an ear for your troubles even though she has her own fair share of life presented before her…
There are friends you have lost  contact for a while… When they approach you, greet you friendly, the distance disappears, you begin chatting as if you have met them only yesterday. The friendship is intact, the warmth you get out of it warms your heart too, smiles all around.
The loyalty that exists in a friendship is worthier than anything imaginable. Trust adds a different perspective. You are absolutely sure that your friend will keep whatever you tell them in confidence. You trust them unconditionally, it is mutual.
There are also  ‘friends’, when in confrontation who become so defensive that hundreds of question marks start dancing around you… It needs patience, a lot of time and understanding to convince these friends. ” Is it really worth all this effort, are they worth this attention?” comes to mind…
If there is love involved in your friendship, you are in for a treat. It can be a good thing or not at all in some cases. Love makes it complicated bringing other feelings, emotions with it… Trust and loyalty are also applicable in a love affair. If they really exist,  or you were made to believe…Question marks…

This is the point one has to stop not having much to say in this situation. It gets a little bit personal, not willing to share as my friends would understand…